There are people who do have a “way with words.” They speak in prose, and they use clear words that everyone understands. Yet even those who have the talent can be defeated when they inject “no,” “but” or “however” into their statements.

Whether at home or at work, those who use them can sabotage themselves. Consider these:

“I think it’s fine, but … .” (Never attach a complaint to a positive statement).

“No, that idea won’t work,” Instead, give constructive ideas on what would work.

The third self-defeating word is “however,” as in “That certainly has merit, however … .” This is a thinly veiled attempt to prove someone wrong.

Some people feel a need to be right all the time. No one is.

So watch these three little words, and get more positive results.